Saturday, February 26, 2005

I found out that Serene Aw was so angry for a whole day because Aidah mishandled the siutation by shouting at her to keep quiet during Business Communication lesson(Monday).
She wanted to throw the calculator at Aidah.
*geez,it remind me of one occasion i did but u will read more of what i did in autobiography soon*
Fortunately,her close classmates,Angie and Jessica refrained her from doing that.
From my point of view,she didn't like being misunderstood as she asked her close classmates whether she talked loudly?
It seems that Connie is the one who talked loudly.

Solution to solve this small problem?
We must make this matter small and make it non-existant in Serene Aw's mind.
I took the chance to talk with Aidah the next following day(Tuesday).
I told her how Serene Aw felt and what she really wanted.
Aidah seem unsure what to handle but i have confidence in her how she can handle this situation better in future.
I definately support her and Serene Aw as well no matter what they do.
Because i want to see true characters in them.
No point of acting as somebody else.
We finish discussing about this small problem.

But then,we were unable to reach the final point where i want to see this matter disappear.
First of all,i don't believe in pointing finger who is in the fault.
Secondly,having no faith in somebody on how they would handle in present and future is useless.You are better off DEAD.
Thirdly and lastly,you must be level-headed enough to talk in proper way.

On Wednesday,i watched Serene Aw and Aidah closely and see what i can do.
I noticed that Aidah and Serene Aw enjoy each other as Norsiah played clown and Nisha make atmosphere more funny.
Upon noticing that,this moment will reduce the tension between Serene Aw and Aidah.
God gave the gift of priceless experience for Serene Aw and Aidah each.

On Thursday,nothing happen.

On Friday,Aidah apologised Serene Aw and they continue enjoyed each other in talking about Zhen Wei in the class where we held the 'problem solving' meeting
All is over.I am glad to see that.
What is the gift of experience to Aidah and Serene Aw?
Aidah got "How to handle the situation without pointing the finger to single-out somebody who did it?" gift
Serene Aw got "It is better not to carry enmity because it is too heavy to live with." gift.

You guys,you better not carry this enmity.
It won't get you satisfied results.
All you can do is to work together if she/he is open to friend with.
If not,the situation when she/he hide and hide(i think it is dumb way to do because you have no guts to face),you need to show your face and prove that you are much tougher than her/him and you don't need to hate.

haha,it is the first time i heard from my mom who was actually praising the Joey Yung's 挥着翅膀的女孩(wielding the wing girl) song in Mandarin.
I feel strongly that EEG should market Joey Yung's voice strongly.
I rate her vocal singing much better than any chinese ladies out there.
The first time i heard her song,i was stunned by her vocal.
What are the quality she got in vocal singing?
Control,Power and Pitch!

Tony Del Piero wrote and posted at at 10:27 pm