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Seriously...How many people have bother to understand us without asking in the first place?
Not a second place,please.Why must it be the first place?
It is all down to their life environment they live and life experience they had.
When a situation crop up,only experienced school people will know and instantly understand your meaning of the problem you are frustrating.
Just now i had a conversation with Yuan Xiang.
After that,i realised that he was damn fucking thick-skinned person because he could never know how many people he had hurt with his jokes(he thought not cruel or insults).
Wah lau,i think i don't have take my effort to explain what wrong in him because he instantly shut down his brand and turn on his raw instincts to 'abuse' people.
As far i think very hard enough,i think that he has made a lot of jokes like 3 out of 5 occasions.
I wonder when he go in NS in few days later and i wonder how much he will change into?
Inside him,if you are damn fucking street-wise in your head or mouth or whatever it is,i am expecting that he will suffer under the superior,assholes and bastards much more than i can do with him.
I remembered that he was sacked due to his insistence to attend the church but the owner denied the access of leave.
He still tell me cheekily that he sacked the owner.
Obviously,he has felt no shame to say that he was sacked.
If i were him with enough consideration of his character and feeling,i still say i am sacked by this owner(regardless of denied or accessed from having work leave)
I hope that you don't do the same as him otherwise u will mislead a lot of friends.
It is worse to lose friends than lie yourself and them.
Pride and 'don't care' attitude do not have the value of worth to save your ass from losing friends.
If you really want to point out someone's mistake and offer the correct verison of it,you must be damn accurate to bring out the concrete evidences and scienitific-proved reasons.
It will make a lot of sense than bring out your wild thinking like making words that someone never did.
tsk tsk tsk...how can we improve ourselves if people like that continue to do this?
Beside that,he is decent friend to have.Great tolerance but damn thick-skinned especially his handling of his own friends.
That is why humans are very complicated.
It take endless time for me to comprehend.
In the end,i never bother to try guessing them even i get 50% correct in most of occasions.
I give you an imagination idea.
Imagine that you are guessing what this person was thinking.
You said your guess to this person.
Hey presto,this person said that you got it right.
BUT..inside this person's heart stopped him from say ,"you are almost correct but there a bit more"
It happen most of time even you got your guess right
Why is it so?They never bother to try to let you to understand them.
That is why we take long time to realise what characters they have hidden for a long time.
Piss it!shit it!
We are in delusions of dreaming that we have owned the people with our own hands and mindset.
Fuck it,we are not that close.
The fact is that everybody does it.
There is stupid mindset in many singaporeans who are limited to the size of small world saying ,"you are all correct and i am all wrong"
Look at the usage and 'power' of the word.
How strong or moderate or weak the word you can speak of?
Those people who are well-aware of english language are the most frustrated with people who are not well-aware of english because the latter always undermine their understanding of good contruction of english sentence with apporpriate feelings.
It was damn so polite and yet the later think the former are not right.
If there is right or wrong,it is courtesy and manner to say something to correct someone in polite way.
In that sense,there is no real distress for people to feel below par.
How many ways that can frustrated people and yet the user of doing don't know that it really hurt friends?
1)Not being firm enough to make a decision and keep on changing the mind just because of the situation?
It is important to stick to that decision u have ultimately made.
What decision?the decision that affect you and someone together..
Why must we stick to that decision and why not we can change it all the time when it is so convenient?
*going into Dragon Zakura's Sakuragi character mode*FOOLS!if you keep on changing,somone will be confused and feel that it is waste of time that she/he prepared for it.
It is much more inconvenient for someone and convenient for yourself.Very easy to say "So what,it is my problem"
2)Divert your attention into something you are extremely interested but u are still clinging on someone hands or leave matter unattended.
Someone tried so hard to get your attention back to him/her but no avail.
Why are you fucking clinging someone or leave matter unattended so long?
"i don't want to lose someone by the time i lose interest" / "I don't know how to deal this matter"
hey wait!What is the something you are interested in?
It can be women or jobs or hobby.
Conveninent for you but not for someone.
Best thing is to give up if you can't divide your attention to all different matters.
This way,someone will not be sad/the matter will not go worse.
As far as i know,i hate myself being stranded when someone has not made confirmation.
LACK OF ATTENTION!
Grrrr..damn frustrating when i have no solution to solve it when someone couldn't say to give up.
3)Loose mouth..
Worse of Worst..Very powerful tool to make someone to stab own heart without doing with your hands.
How come they cannot control their loose mouth?
the point in that is they thought that they were fucking fun and their friends enjoyed.
tsk tsk tsk.
Again,there is no solution to let them to know that they really have one.
They will deny and deny all the way.
4)Naive people who are capable of saying wrong things but they thought they were right.
Wah lau,how many times do i face naive people in this world?
Sometimes i wanna say the correct one but they still think.
Again,i have no solution unless they educate themselves properly.
After this incident with Yuan Xiang,i can go and fuck myself and don't bother what shit they say.
Save my effort to correct them since they don't want to work on it to understand the meaning of a thing.
There are much more in the list.I can't remember all of them.
I have been frustrated with those people who have done them because i am the victim of them for a long time even they are nice people.
Why did i say nice people?
they are treating you nice but one day they will do this.
No surprise for all nice people.
Subsquently,i have lost the count of assholes and bitches.
Tony Del Piero wrote and posted at at 6:12 pm
